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I watched intently as my little brother was
caught in the act. He sat in the corner of the living room, a pen in one
hand and my father's hymnbook in the other. As my father walked into the
room, my brother cowered slightly; he sensed that he had done something
wrong. From a distance, I saw that he had opened my father's brand-new
book and scribbled across the length and breadth of the entire first page
with a pen. Now, staring at my father fearfully, he and I both waited
for his punishment.
My father picked up his prized hymnal, looked
at it carefully, and then sat down without saying a word. Books were precious
to him; he was a clergyman and the holder of several degrees. For him,
books were knowledge, and yet, he loved his children. What he did in the
next few minutes was remarkable. Instead of punishing my brother, instead
of scolding or yelling or reprimanding, he sat down, took the pen from
my brother's hand and then wrote in the book himself, alongside the scribbles
John had made: "John's word 1959, age two. How many times have I looked
into your beautiful face and into your warm, alert eyes looking up at
me and thanked God for the one who has now scribbled in my new hymnal?
You have made the book sacred as have your brothers and sister to so much
of my life." Wow, I thought. This is punishment?
From time to time I take a book down -- not just
a cheesy paperback but a real book that I know I will have for many years
to come -- and I give it to one of my children to scribble or write their
names in. And as I look at their artwork, I think about my father, and
how he taught me about what really matters in life: people, not objects;
tolerance, not judgment; love which is at the very heart of a family.
I think about these things, and I smile. And I whisper, "Thank you, Dad."
J. Marlon Finley
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